Tips For Dating Women For Men Looking For A Relationship

There are numerous details that an individual needs to think about when they are looking to approach a woman. Those who do things the wrong way are most likely going to walk away with very few phone numbers, if any at all, for the night. Guys who want to find the proper girl will need to take the time read through these tips for dating women. Get going right now and enjoy the results to come.

It is important to remember that there is no need to put on any sort of act. Ladies do not usually like this approach and will be turned off by it, the minute they know a guy is trying to put on some sort of act or front. Men who do so are not secure enough with themselves. So lying and putting on a front will not get you far.

On top of that, there is really no rush when it comes to dating women. People often feel like they need to be on fast mode so that they can get to where they want to be in the relationship. However, the dating process should be the most fun process out of them all. This is the time to get to know people and keep some options open before settling down on just one person. Take it slow, hang out on nice dates, and go out on nice dinners to get to know each other.

Men should ensure that they are looking good and presentable. Women do judge off of looks these days and if a guy is not cleaned up enough, he could be looked over. Shaving is not bad though some women like bearded men, and it is always a good idea to invest in some new clothing just to look completely sharp throughout the entire evening.

There is no problem with continuing to be old fashioned. Open up the doors for the lady and make sure that she gets everything she needs. This is not as common these days as people might think. In fact, many ladies end up doing all of that on their own simply because guys are not used to doing these things.

The entire night should be covered by the guy. Again, this is an old fashioned type of sign, but when dating a lady and taking her out ensure that the bill can be covered. Many women still like to be treated and she should be grateful for the whole evening.

These tips for dating women should come in handy for anyone. There are plenty of great methods to use in order to get a hold of a lady that is unlike any other. Look around right now and be smart about taking her out and treating her.

Rules of Texting and Dating Part 2

Here's the second installement of Texting and Dating. Enjoy!

As I mentioned in part I of my series on texting and dating, many people rely on texting as their primary means of communication. While this is convenient, it’s not always a good thing for budding relationships. (See previous list of texting DON’Ts.)

On the other hand, texting is a great way to show your creativity and keep a connection going after a great date. Let’s face it, we all get busy and don’t have the time to send off a long email or make a phone call. But texting allows us to check in quickly and easily. Plus, it keeps the excitement going until the next time you see each other.

Following are some texting DO’s that can help move your relationships forward:

DO text to confirm plans. If you’re meeting someone for a drink, send a quick text to confirm, or to let them know if you’re running late. Simple gestures like these go a long way in showing someone you’ve just started dating that you are considerate and not a flake.

DO text a thank-you after the date. Gone are the days of waiting three days for a phone call. Instead, most relationships move forward or fall off quickly. Send your date a brief text thanking him for the date and letting him know you’d like to get together again. Then let him respond…no need to keep texting indefinitely with no response.

DO text flirtatiously. If you are excited about someone you just met and want to keep the connection going, it’s okay to get a little flirty over text. Show your creativity and be clever. But don’t be tempted to send naked photos even if you think your texts have progressed to "sexts". Far too many bad things can happen, from your picture getting posted online to offending the object of your affection. Save that for in-person time.

DO text promptly. There’s no need to wait several days before responding to a text to keep a guy or girl interested. If you get a text, try to respond within a couple of hours. This shows your interest. If you wait, he might assume you’re not and move on.

For further tips and advice on this topic, check out our review of Guy's Guide to Texting.

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Rules of Texting and Dating

Here are a few simple rules when it comes to Dating and Texting. It's a little list of what not to do when mixing texting in with a relationship.

Let’s face it, we all text now, probably more than we actually talk to people over the phone. It’s convenient, efficient, and allows you to continue with your day uninterrupted by something like a twenty-minute conversation with your friend about what she should wear to a party.

But sometimes, it’s a little too convenient. According to a recent study done by Shape and Men’s Fitness Magazine, 43% of women and 27% of men polled said they’d received a break-up message over text. If you’ve ever been dumped via text, it doesn’t feel too great. People deserve a little more respect, no matter how well you know them.

I’ve put together a list of texting DON’Ts for those of you who might be a little confused as to what works and what doesn’t when you’re dating.

Don’t plan a first date over text. Call first. See how your phone chemistry is before you start trading flirtatious texts back and forth. When you talk, you can establish more firm plans than a vague “let’s get together this week” text.

Don’t text when you’re drunk. This goes without saying, but worth a reminder. If you have a few too many and start thinking about your ex, sometimes it’s easy to just send a quick text and drive yourself crazy waiting for a response. Don’t give in.

Don’t send 50 texts hoping he’ll respond eventually. One or two flirtatious texts is great to keep a connection going, but if you send multiple texts with no response, you’re going to look needy. If she doesn’t respond the first time, move on.

Don’t try to argue over text. If you get angry and want to make a point, pick up the phone or meet in person. Emotions are difficult to convey over text, and arguments can lead to even more misunderstanding.

Don’t break up over text. Have some respect for your soon-to-be ex. Pick up the phone or meet in person. Sending an email is fine if you’ve only been out a few times. Calling or emailing makes for a cleaner break-up and both of you can move forward with no doubts about what’s going on. Yes, it takes courage but it’s better than trying to avoid conflict by texting. This will only create more confusion and anger. Don’t hide behind your actions, and then both of you can move on.

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A Post Valentine's Day Musing...

So this morning I was riding the subway and ran into a friend of mine...I asked her how her Valentine's Day was and she replied...

"Eh...me and Derrek just argued the whole day."
"Hmph...About?" I asked, "Sorry if i'm intruding."
She sighed and said "Everything...first he wasn't being romantic, so I started crying and then he got me flowers but then I told him it was pointless and then we went out to dinner and was in a bad mood and...."

She continued, but at this point I was already lost in thought..."Sounds more like D-Day to me...Are women really like this?" Hell, I'm a woman, but to me (especially considering I work in the dating indsustry) Valentine's Day has sort of just become yet another day to me.

In my opinion, you shouldn't need a day to be romantic. What if you're just having a crappy day and it happens to be Valentine's Day? What do you do? You grin and bear it and you still do nice things for your sweetie, because that's what you're "supposed" to do.

So what I'm really getting at, is a message to all my ladies out there...Don't be so hard on your fella! If you're with a man who's generally romantic and sweet to you in your everyday life, don't get all pissy when he isn't being "romantic enough" on V-Day. Maybe he's just having a rough day, so before you freak out on him, talk to him and see if he's okay...let him know you can take a rain check. Because honestly, what sounds more appealing:

 Option A) Go out to dinner on Valentine's Day after several arguments, and both of you feeling "not in the mood" to be lovey dovey

 Option B) Take a rain check, cool down, go out for a romantic night on the town on another night and have a blast!

Who knows, maybe they both sound unappealing to you.

And now for the men...

Here's a MAJOR tip:

Be her knight in shining armor, and I use that term in the sense of take a day to be her romanticized version of the perfect man. She wants to be swooned! Keep in mind all women are different. Some women enjoy Coach Bags and Tiffany necklaces. I don't. I'd prefer a vintage locket or something he found at a thrift store he thought I'd like. Money aside, most women love romance.

Write her a hand written letter or card and give it to her. In fact, MAIL it to her sans return address. When was the last time you received a hand written letter in the mail? Exactly. The benefit of giving it to her in person though is seeing her have that "Omigod I'm totally going to cry because this is the sweetest man I've ever met..." and then she'll likely give you one big smooch!

Don't know what to write? Pish Posh! Just tell her how you feel "I love the way your skin feels and the way you smell even when you're not wearing perfume. I love your laugh and how you ...etc" You get the idea...

Single and wanting love?
 Well that's what SpeedDateUSA.com is here for. We have a ton of upcoming events in our home city in Philadelphia. Come have a night on the town and meet singles in your age range, or singles that have similar interests. Maybe you won't find your future husband...or hell, maybe you will. But you will most definitely make a few friends and have a hell of a good time!

Got your eye on someone special but you're not sure how to approach them?

Email me at advice@SpeedDateUSA.com. I'll offer you FREE unbiased advice, and then, with your permission, post the question and answer here to help our other readers. Please note that names, dates, and other identifying information will be omitted or alterted to protect your privacy.

Body language - a significant means of expression

Body language is a significant means of genuine expression - it doesn't lie. We hide behind our words, and seek to give a certain impression.

Regardless of what language you speak, the international language of body language allows all cultures to communicate. It allows anyone of any age to express themselves, from an infant right up to the elderly, without even speaking one word. There's no mistaking the meaning of a smile, a wave or a simple hand gesture to ask for or to offer assistance.

While we can control our body language to a fair degree, one thing we can’t control is our pupils – yes, one of the most subtle signs that someone is attracted to you is in the eyes. Nancy Fagin writes on the BBW Magazine website: "One of the obvious signs of physiological attraction is enlarged pupils. There are two main factors that cause our pupils to dilate, attraction and dim light. To confirm whether you think someone's eyes are dilating, try and do some subtle comparisons with others in the same room."

With all the advancements of modern technologies, and for those who utilize social online tools such as Face Book, free dating websites or singles chat rooms , online social outlets still make it difficult to determine ones body language in comparison to conventional dating methods where you have the advantage to determine whether he or she is interested in you by their body language.

There are plenty of other clues that show whether someone is interested in you or not. And if you’re looking for clues, cast your eyes down to the ground and see what his or her feet are doing – if their feet are pointing in your direction, then you could be on a winner.

And the foot bone is connected to the leg bone….Yep, legs will tell you something as well. If someone likes you, they will cross their legs towards you – if the legs are crossed away from you, this is a way of shutting you out.

More obvious is the way the body is facing. Says Nancy Fagin "the trunk of their body will face you squarely" if they're interested. Mirroring is another fascinating aspect of body language. Tim Boucher, a self-described itinerant scholar, explains it like this on his website: "(Mirroring) "Put simply, this implies you subconsciously do whatever it is they are doing. When they choose to move forward in your direction to say something intimate to you, you also move forward to meet them. Equally, if they move back in their chair and take a sip from their glass and look you straight in the eye, when you are attracted to someone, you will pause then copy them".

The hypothesis behind mirroring means that basically we like someone, or can sometimes be attracted to people who we mirror and are more likely to trust them. When a person does what we are doing, we are more inclined to feel like they are on our level and can assume they feel comfortable in our company.

Touch is another big cue. If the person finds any excuse to touch you (like removing a bit of lint from your clothing) this is a sign that they're keen. Touch is used by singles in the flirting stakes to communicate interest. So learn to read the signs…from top to toe, our bodies always tell the truth.

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Update for Autumn!

            Autumn is here! And so are all the wonderful things that come with it! From hot cider and pumpkin pie to hayrides or pumpkin patch excursions on a brisk Saturday morning, and last but not least, a very familiar sight that seems to become a bit more noticeable when the temperature dips and the nights get longer: couples. Just recently I was walking down the streets of Old City, Philadelphia on a gorgeous fall day, breathing in the chilly air, appreciating the beauty of colorful fallen leaves, having a perfectly nice day until I felt a pang of envy and loneliness when I turned towards a gleeful laugh and saw a young man and woman throwing leaves at each other and getting back to their inner child. It seems as though whenever you’re single and lonely you begin noticing couples everywhere, and you can’t help but ask yourself; why can’t I find someone I connect with? Why can’t I have a man or woman to hold me, keep me warm, and enjoy the upcoming holidays with? Is there something wrong with me?

                I’m sure there’s certainly nothing wrong with you. Perhaps you’re just taking the wrong approach and looking in all the wrong places. Would you go to Home Depot to buy jewelry? Probably not. Sure you may be able to find supplies to make it, but there’s a much more convenient tactic: go to a jewelry store. Similarly, sure you can find singles at a bar if you go out with friends, but there is a MUCH more efficient method for you to meet people! And I DO NOT mean internet dating! That’s just a waste of time when you begin to consider how long it takes you to write the “perfect” profile, construct an elegant message that’s sure to get noticed, or wait around for whoever you’ve emailed to answer you.

               The method of dating I’m referring to offers convenience, a stress-free, rejection-free, and private environment, and most importantly, an 80% success rate. Yes…you’ve guest it, I’m referring to a SpeedDateUSA.com event! We pride ourselves on offering premium, exclusive events where clients can relax in a comfortable setting after a hard day’s work and mingle with multiple singles during our the first phase of our events: our singles mixer. Continuing on with our formal speed dating process, you will have the opportunity to enjoy a brief date with 8 to 15 other singles all in just a few hours! Following the event, you’ll enter your matches into our online database, and a day or two later we send them out! Contact information will only be exchanged between two people who have mutually chose each other as a match. Sounds pretty simple, huh? Well that’s because it is! What are you waiting for? Go to www.SpeeDateUSA.com right NOW! Find your city, and register for FREE! Or call 877-215-7464 or email info@speeddateusa.com for more information! I’ll be waiting to hear from you ;-).  

            Yours Truly,

            Christina Rose
Your Go-To Girl for Dating Advice!