Rules of Texting and Dating Part 2

Here's the second installement of Texting and Dating. Enjoy!

As I mentioned in part I of my series on texting and dating, many people rely on texting as their primary means of communication. While this is convenient, it’s not always a good thing for budding relationships. (See previous list of texting DON’Ts.)

On the other hand, texting is a great way to show your creativity and keep a connection going after a great date. Let’s face it, we all get busy and don’t have the time to send off a long email or make a phone call. But texting allows us to check in quickly and easily. Plus, it keeps the excitement going until the next time you see each other.

Following are some texting DO’s that can help move your relationships forward:

DO text to confirm plans. If you’re meeting someone for a drink, send a quick text to confirm, or to let them know if you’re running late. Simple gestures like these go a long way in showing someone you’ve just started dating that you are considerate and not a flake.

DO text a thank-you after the date. Gone are the days of waiting three days for a phone call. Instead, most relationships move forward or fall off quickly. Send your date a brief text thanking him for the date and letting him know you’d like to get together again. Then let him respond…no need to keep texting indefinitely with no response.

DO text flirtatiously. If you are excited about someone you just met and want to keep the connection going, it’s okay to get a little flirty over text. Show your creativity and be clever. But don’t be tempted to send naked photos even if you think your texts have progressed to "sexts". Far too many bad things can happen, from your picture getting posted online to offending the object of your affection. Save that for in-person time.

DO text promptly. There’s no need to wait several days before responding to a text to keep a guy or girl interested. If you get a text, try to respond within a couple of hours. This shows your interest. If you wait, he might assume you’re not and move on.

For further tips and advice on this topic, check out our review of Guy's Guide to Texting.

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Rules of Texting and Dating

Here are a few simple rules when it comes to Dating and Texting. It's a little list of what not to do when mixing texting in with a relationship.

Let’s face it, we all text now, probably more than we actually talk to people over the phone. It’s convenient, efficient, and allows you to continue with your day uninterrupted by something like a twenty-minute conversation with your friend about what she should wear to a party.

But sometimes, it’s a little too convenient. According to a recent study done by Shape and Men’s Fitness Magazine, 43% of women and 27% of men polled said they’d received a break-up message over text. If you’ve ever been dumped via text, it doesn’t feel too great. People deserve a little more respect, no matter how well you know them.

I’ve put together a list of texting DON’Ts for those of you who might be a little confused as to what works and what doesn’t when you’re dating.

Don’t plan a first date over text. Call first. See how your phone chemistry is before you start trading flirtatious texts back and forth. When you talk, you can establish more firm plans than a vague “let’s get together this week” text.

Don’t text when you’re drunk. This goes without saying, but worth a reminder. If you have a few too many and start thinking about your ex, sometimes it’s easy to just send a quick text and drive yourself crazy waiting for a response. Don’t give in.

Don’t send 50 texts hoping he’ll respond eventually. One or two flirtatious texts is great to keep a connection going, but if you send multiple texts with no response, you’re going to look needy. If she doesn’t respond the first time, move on.

Don’t try to argue over text. If you get angry and want to make a point, pick up the phone or meet in person. Emotions are difficult to convey over text, and arguments can lead to even more misunderstanding.

Don’t break up over text. Have some respect for your soon-to-be ex. Pick up the phone or meet in person. Sending an email is fine if you’ve only been out a few times. Calling or emailing makes for a cleaner break-up and both of you can move forward with no doubts about what’s going on. Yes, it takes courage but it’s better than trying to avoid conflict by texting. This will only create more confusion and anger. Don’t hide behind your actions, and then both of you can move on.

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